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To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man: The Keys to Catch a Great Guy (Relationship and Dating Advice for Women Book 7) Kindle Edition

by Gregg Michaelsen (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
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Learn The Secret Language of Men

What if you could get what you want from a man by communicating in a way that only he understands? His best male friend can do it, why can't you? You can now!

Introducing Man Mode

Doesn't it drive you nuts how a man will show his soft underbelly to his male friends but not you? He'll barely show you his emotions but he spills his guts to his buds. It's like there is some secret society that only men know.I will teach you "MAN MODE" to crack this secret just like his friends can. Man mode is how you communicate to a man just like his male friends do. It's simple, MAGICAL, and he won't even know!

This is the JEWEL and the core read to compliment all of my best sellers. This dating advice for women book gives you the blueprint to understanding the male mind.

Where is the manual to teach women how to deal with men?

Where is the dating book to communicate with a man and get one's desires met?

And where is the course instructing women on how to keep a man in love with them?

Right Here! Don't Believe? Read the Reviews

Guys get away with tons of stuff because YOU allow them to. This book will strip a man of his power and put you in control. Hi I'm Gregg. I'm a top dating and life coach out of Boston. I have sold 250,000 books and this is what I am offering you:

Buy this book and there is a chance we can talk in private

How many authors offer this?

Everyone's story is unique. You are unique. But your situation is not. I have seen it and fixed it a thousand times. So if we can talk directly, we can improve your situation.

This is what I do - I take as many emails as I can. It's possible I can talk with you. My email is inside the book. I love working with my wonderful readers as you can see in my reviews.

This dating advice book is your core read, my other top dating books are your tools and I am your confidence builder.

In Section 1, We Learn His Blueprint:

  • The Conveyor Belt to Manhood (The influences of our upbringing)
  • How men love in different ways and how these affect YOU
  • How men determine a keeper
  • The 3 things men require (not what you think!)
  • The 5 mistakes women often make and don't realize (this alone will improve your results with men)

In Section 2:

  • How and Why you need to control your emotions
  • Man Mode
  • How to become a higher woman of value (experiences-the more the better)
  • Baggage handling (both his and yours)
  • My formula for attraction (complete this first, then find a guy)
  • Confidence building done my way (You have never heard of this trick!)
  • Some men are just idiots and should be DUMPED
  • Power dating and why you need to do this
  • Is he the one? And the plan to test him (this is fun)
  • The secret language of men

My friends, DO NOT PASS THIS BOOK UP! Hit the buy right now button in the upper right and let's get to work. Inside, I will also give you TWO FREE books to master men. Women rave about this book and its contents.

Read the sequel to this book - Manimals! Understanding Different Types of Men and How to Date Them. It's funny and powerful.

About The Author

Gregg Michaelsen, Boston's top dating coach strikes again with trending dating and relationship advice for women. Read all his books on Amazon; 10 Secrets You Need To Know About Men, Power Texting Men, The Social Tigress, Who Holds the Cards Now?, How to Get Your Ex Back Fast and Love is in The Mouse. These books are game changers.

Let's Get to Work

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This book will awaken you from your dating slumber to a full explosion
The author of this book has unveiled the mind of a man. Ladies, get your copy. It contains all you need to know about spicing up your relationship and the GPS to the right man. Get your copy, read, follow instructions and live happy. . . .Simple - By moods

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I like to thank Mr. Gregg Michaelsen for such awesome book, I really enjoy reading it. Not only it is very entertaining and easy to read but it is so enlightening. Oh gosh... while reading it I could stop thinking "that is so true".. ... I felt very grateful to have Mr. Michaelsen email me. Thank you keep up your wonderful work - By Allie M

A must read for the serious dater
Gregg's writing is humorous, direct, and encouraging. Let's face it: men and women think differently. Reading Gregg's books is like having the playbook for the other team. What an advantage! - By SFC

A book for all women!
This book is very informative. It is concise and a very enjoyable read. All women can use the information the author is providing. We can all use a glimpse from the male perspective. You can choose what to believe or not believe. In my experience, the author is spot on with his advice! - By Deb

Amazing pack full of useful knowledge
So true ! Amazingly informative! Easy read awesome information! What you learn can immediately be applied to your relationships. Very motivating - By Alice Espinosa

Great Handbook!
This is a great book to get into the minds of men and how they think. I could relate to so many of the situations Gregg has posed in his book. I feel I am now armed to go out and find quality men. But first, I'm going to get busy on my own personal development - By Amazon Customer

I liked Michaelsen so well I purchased a couple more of ...
This book is so spot on. I am empowered after reading it. I liked Michaelsen so well I purchased a couple more of his books without even reviewing. I know they will be good reads. What I really appreciate about him is he cares about people...it shows through his writing - By Dea Dietrick

I Wished I Had This Book Before
Excellent points for singles to navigate the dating world. A must for clueless single women. Buy it now, waste no time - by Success Guru

Excellent read!
I read this book in 3 days and rather quickly started applying it to my relationship. After 24 hours of man mode it was already working. I highly suggest having your girlfriends read it too. That way you always have someone to consult and get advice from. I'm super excited to start To Date a Man You must understand yourself - by Alison

Another fantastic book from Gregg Michaelsen.
All of his work has changed my life for the better! They say knowledge is power. In this case, it most definitely IS! - by Tamara J. Root

Five Stars
Every women needs to read this. I will teach this info to my daughters - by Jillian V

Fabulous!
I don't know how I stumbled onto this book but I Truly enjoyed this read. This book makes so much sense! This will truly help me move forward with my relationship in how to Coexist with my man. I will keep this book close. Thank you! - by Jennifer

Fantastic!
This book was so very helpful. It is very thorough and explains in depth how women should approach dating. I have already downloaded the two free books and workbook he gives, and plan on buying his others! - By kymberli

Just awesome! I rarely write reviews and I dont have time to write this but, man, this guy made me understand my boyfriend so much better. Its not even about the men really. Its not how to be the perfect girlfriend. Its about valuing your self and teach them how to treat you. And understanding the behavior of guys for YOUR benefit. Recommending! - Amazon Customer

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00JSVTQPW
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ (April 18, 2014)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ April 18, 2014
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1704 KB
  • Simultaneous device usage ‏ : ‎ Unlimited
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
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  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 86 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.4 out of 5 stars 1,854

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Gregg rules the dating advice genre having sold a quarter million books. He is a multiple #1 best-selling author, dating coach, and life coach. Being both gives him an incredible advantage with the people he touches. He helps women (and men) succeed in both their dating and everyday lives. He encourages his readers to contact him through his books and get answers for free.

Gregg’s motto? Build Yourself and He Will Come.

When not answering emails from his readers, Gregg loves jetsking, surfing, hanging out under the palm trees in West Palm, and calling his Mom at 5 am. His Dad was a life coach, before they were even popular, and coached Gregg.

Gregg just completed a video shoot with world renowned dating/relationship expert Dr. Helen Fisher in NYC. He credits his three older sisters as the reason why he understands women so well. He gives to The Wounded Warrior Project and animal shelters.

Gregg is currently working on his latest book that helps women truly understand men so they can acquire what they want by communicating in a language that men understand. Exciting stuff!

Checkout Gregg and become a believer, thousands have.

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Gina M. Wheatman
5.0 out of 5 stars I highly recommend this book!
Reviewed in the United States on April 26, 2015
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I have found this book to have a great wealth of information. I found it to be well written and laid out in a way I that could understand and relate to. Gregg does use some profanity, but it does not offend me because I appreciate his honest presentation. I had read many reviews on this book before I purchased it, and there were a couple of people who said that what Gregg had written is "common sense." I don't agree with those opinions because it was not "common sense" to me. I did not know or understand how most men really think and/or feel about women and relationships. Even though I had taken many psychology classes in college and dated many men in hopes of understanding relationships, men, women and people, I always felt as if something was missing. Gregg has filled in what I was missing in understanding men and relating to them in a way in which is more constructive in forming a lasting relationship.

I am so very thankful that I ordered this book after an extremely difficult break-up. I was in a relationship in which the man I was with kept telling me he loved me and wanted to marry me. He strung me a long for three years, and went back to his ex-wife three times because she decided that she wanted to "reconcile" and did not want us together. During this time I was undergoing cancer treatment and stuck with him because he kept telling me he loved me, was not in love with her and wanted to be with me instead. I regret not knowing or buying this book sooner as I can see now that I was a dish towel who gave my heart and trusted a man that is a "wet kitten."

This book has made me take a hard look within myself and change myself for the better. I can be strong and confident and still be a woman even though I am learning to think like a man. I am not going to say it is all smooth sailing after this difficult break-up, but thanks to Gregg and this book there are more good days than bad and they seem to be getting better all the time. Gregg really does care and is available should his readers have any questions. He will even give a book of his to the reader for free if they are sincere in wanting to read it. He has been a blessing to me and I am very thankful. I plan on buying more of his books.
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Mal
5.0 out of 5 stars Clear logical advice
Reviewed in the United States on December 4, 2022
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I thought it was refreshing and it helped me to find some inner peace with my relationship. I was feeling a lot of turmoil inside. For the price of a large coffee, it felt like I sat down with Gregg at a coffee house and had a great conversation. Almost like a big brother or your best guy friend. He didn’t tell me what I wanted to hear but what I needed to hear (or be reminded of). The book was short with no nonsense or fluff, yet funny. Sometimes when you’re in a relationship, you want advice but you don’t necessarily want to talk to any friend or family. Their advice comes from a good place but mostly, it’s biased and causes more unintended harm than good to the relationship. As you get older, you realize that it’s best to communicate directly with your partner and not involve other people. I randomly stumbled upon this book in the Kindle store. It really helped me to figure out how to communicate better and healthier with my boyfriend.
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Huyen Dao
4.0 out of 5 stars Blunt honest short read
Reviewed in the United States on September 18, 2020
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It’s blunt, on point I finished in a day. All of which the author said is true and his advices are worth following. However, you will need further reading material on communication and interpersonal relationship skills to make it work. You also need to understand yourself which, by the way, the author also wrote To Date a Man, You Must Understand Yourself.
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Jenn Reedy
5.0 out of 5 stars An honest man tells you honestly, what me really think & why. I loved it!
Reviewed in the United States on December 1, 2015
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Really liked this. I gained some insight. Things I was doing thinking they would cause a good outcome for me, were wrong & actually pushing him away. It's not about kissing ass or not being yourself. It's that we women think differently & expect a man to think as we do. They don't. That's where problems start. If we know how they think, why the do what they do ( instead of getting all upset & thinking the worst about what he said or did & arguing with him) , we can get a better insight thru their eyes. You know" that look" of " what?!" When your steaming mad! Well they really don't know what they did wrong ( sometimes ! Unless he's a jerk & plays you & that's covered too) . Men are not emotional. We are. We think differently, like two football teams trying to win with different play books. If you can understand their play book, it's a much easier , nicer relationship.
I'm glad I bought this . Learned quite a few things.
Good book for anyone in a relationship or looking to be in one! Understand better how men think, what they need in life & from you. How they need to feel about themselves before they can make you feel the way he wants you to. It seems pretty simple, but then why did we not figure it out a long time ago?! It takes an honest man to tell you honestly , how men think & why they do what they do .
Jenn~
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5.0 out of 5 stars Wow! A must read
Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2023
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Every women should read this book. He really tells it like it is. I always sensed that men think certain ways, but I wasn’t sure, so I kept doing things that didn’t work. Now I know why and what to do instead. This is a book that’s necessary if you want to date successfully.
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Sandy Peters
3.0 out of 5 stars Pretty good
Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2021
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This was written by a man….good. But it is all about doing everything to please that man….which is good until you sacrifice your soul because you get nothing in return. He gets it all.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Très utile et agréable à lire
Reviewed in France on February 15, 2020
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Très bien livre, bien écrit.
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Ms. G. Mclean
5.0 out of 5 stars The best dating advice book out there for women
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 29, 2019
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I've just finished this book and it's honestly the best self help/dating book I've ever read. It isn't a really long book but it doesn't need to be because the author doesn't beat about the bush, he gets straight to the point, and that's what I loved about it (too many books these days are 'fluffed' out but this isn't one of them). If you've been through the mill and want to know where you've been going wrong then this is a good book to read as it goes into some common mistakes. I was reading it and kicking myself for things in the past I should have picked up on but never did. I wish I had come across this book years ago!

There are good examples in it and the chapters are well set out. It's the kind of book you can read quickly if you want to and can easily dip in and out of when required. I loved that the author gives the opportunity for a free ebook too. I will definitely be reading more of Gregg's books.
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Shalaka H
5.0 out of 5 stars Superb views
Reviewed in India on May 30, 2019
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I was waiting for such views. Author Gregg gives a good perspective to look at the world. Must read this book.
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yasmin
5.0 out of 5 stars It was helpful
Reviewed in Germany on February 15, 2017
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I really respect the auther. He informed me about a lot of stuff. It nice that he is a guy .but I think the book is only about European men .
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J. Donovan
5.0 out of 5 stars Great advice
Reviewed in Canada on June 25, 2015
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Simple and concise advice from a man and that's who we need it from not our other single friends who can't figure out what they are doing wrong
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