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Mangoes in the Rain: No one can take away your Imaginations
In 2002, fifteen-year-old Chinaemelum leaves America, to go to Nigeria for summer break. Months later, she fights for her life against malaria. Summer is over and her father refuses to give her back her passport to return to America with her mother. She is kept in Nigeria against her will, he puts her in a all girls boarding school, where she struggles to adapt to life, in a 3rd world country. Two and a half years later, she and her siblings escape out of their fathers house to the American Embassy in Lagos for hopes of leaving Nigeria. She is adamant about expressing her trauma of abandonment, abuse, and her survival mechanism then and now. Out of this tragedy, she's able to overcome and be of a success today. She voices the portrayals of her childhood and teen years growing up Nigerian American in America to Nigerian parents. Raised in Silver Spring, Maryland, by a Christian Pastor and wife, life is portrayed in public as a God fearing couple, but behind close doors chinaemelum witness her father often beating her mother. He eventually begins to abuse Chinaemelum, by calling her a hoar and a prostitute at age 13. Chinaemelum had high hopes when she heard she was going to Nigeria for the summer. She had no idea the gravity of the horrific adventure about to take place. Chinaemelum has been writing for more than 12 years. She is the author of her first book called “Mangoes in the Rain”.
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84 pages, Kindle Edition
Published January 15, 2020
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August 24, 2020
"My mind thought of the mango tree, and I instantly felt relaxed a bit. I missed the mango tree. But who would have thought of the crazy adventure about to begin."
This memoir is a clear read, told in simple, natural language. And it is powerful!
Told from the point of view of a survivor of child abuse who wants to protect her mother, a victim of domestic violence, this story speaks of a child who migrates from America to Nigeria; her father has told the family a mansion awaits them, but the reality of a stark, cold house with prison-like windows is far removed from the picture he painted.
A new life unfolds in Nigeria, and our heroine's sad eyes witness a system of violence and oppression, with no potential help from emergency hotlines, unlike in America, should her mother be in danger. Beatings and cruelty are amplified in Nigeria, not only in the home, but also in the regimented public school our heroine attends. She loses all threads of connection with her friends back in America; letters from them, to which she has not replied, become infrequent and dwindle altogether. Her uncle and her cousin, Cy, give her hope, but when her mother leaves Nigeria to return to The U.S.A, she feels bereft and abandoned.
Beaten for braiding her hair and repeatedly being labeled as a prostitute by her sadistic father, she feels she does not have control even over her own body. And her destiny is uncertain. She has Gift, her little mini me sister who is just like a gift. However, Gift lives in another town in Nigeria with her maternal grandmother. And the patriarch of the family kidnaps her, forcing her to attend the primary school he has built.
Our heroine has a strength that will not let Patriarchy defeat her. When her father sends the vigilantes to take her brother, Ozi, away, she finds it in herself to secretly follow to try to help him. She has courage, but knows which battles to fight.
Eventually, after years of hardship and struggle, she witnesses the snows of Baltimore in Maryland. She's in America again.
This talented author tells the truth of her passage in words that are poignant, and she reflects on what she has learned from a crazy adventure, where you may leave a country, but the experiences linger.
This memoir is a clear read, told in simple, natural language. And it is powerful!
Told from the point of view of a survivor of child abuse who wants to protect her mother, a victim of domestic violence, this story speaks of a child who migrates from America to Nigeria; her father has told the family a mansion awaits them, but the reality of a stark, cold house with prison-like windows is far removed from the picture he painted.
A new life unfolds in Nigeria, and our heroine's sad eyes witness a system of violence and oppression, with no potential help from emergency hotlines, unlike in America, should her mother be in danger. Beatings and cruelty are amplified in Nigeria, not only in the home, but also in the regimented public school our heroine attends. She loses all threads of connection with her friends back in America; letters from them, to which she has not replied, become infrequent and dwindle altogether. Her uncle and her cousin, Cy, give her hope, but when her mother leaves Nigeria to return to The U.S.A, she feels bereft and abandoned.
Beaten for braiding her hair and repeatedly being labeled as a prostitute by her sadistic father, she feels she does not have control even over her own body. And her destiny is uncertain. She has Gift, her little mini me sister who is just like a gift. However, Gift lives in another town in Nigeria with her maternal grandmother. And the patriarch of the family kidnaps her, forcing her to attend the primary school he has built.
Our heroine has a strength that will not let Patriarchy defeat her. When her father sends the vigilantes to take her brother, Ozi, away, she finds it in herself to secretly follow to try to help him. She has courage, but knows which battles to fight.
Eventually, after years of hardship and struggle, she witnesses the snows of Baltimore in Maryland. She's in America again.
This talented author tells the truth of her passage in words that are poignant, and she reflects on what she has learned from a crazy adventure, where you may leave a country, but the experiences linger.
July 2, 2020
Mangoes in the Rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya is a heartfelt memoir that chronicles the author’s adolescence in a toxic environment. In this book, the author talks about how she grew up in a toxic family where her father was an arrogant man. Her mother was no better but still managed to give some solace to the girl. The author brings into account her journey from America to Nigeria, where she was trapped for around 2.5 years. She further described the agony of her heart as she gets to hear abusive (very abusive) words from her father. She even narrated how she was not allowed to voice her thoughts and lived her life, with muffled tears and pain, in an obnoxious family.
The author summed up an important part of her years of growing up in this book. Mangoes have significance in the author’s life, and so, they occupy the space in the title of this memoir. She vividly portrayed her tough time. Her story makes you realize how crucial it is to have a loving family. And towards the end of the book, she throws light on some thought-provoking lessons.
The author boldly depicted the struggles of her life. In the process, she kept her writing simple so that anyone would be able to read and understand it. On top of that, the narration is reasonably smooth that makes relating to the author’s experience easier. It definitely turned out to be an essential read as it signifies the downside of being exposed to a toxic environment when one is fragile.
The author summed up an important part of her years of growing up in this book. Mangoes have significance in the author’s life, and so, they occupy the space in the title of this memoir. She vividly portrayed her tough time. Her story makes you realize how crucial it is to have a loving family. And towards the end of the book, she throws light on some thought-provoking lessons.
The author boldly depicted the struggles of her life. In the process, she kept her writing simple so that anyone would be able to read and understand it. On top of that, the narration is reasonably smooth that makes relating to the author’s experience easier. It definitely turned out to be an essential read as it signifies the downside of being exposed to a toxic environment when one is fragile.
June 11, 2020
How do you overcome memories that pierced your heart for years?
Surely, we cure it by words, actions or by the silence of our own.
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'Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya' is a part memoir. A story of her perseverance and desire to gain what is right. The author has boldly written her story of struggles. Which she faced in 2002, when she went on a summer vacation to Nigeria, but couldn't come back because of her father's forced will, and adamant nature. It was sad and heart wrenching to read the author's story.
It's mourning when someone close to you, a birth giver starts acting as a disguised personality and that too against you.
Chinaemelum's went through her father's apprehensions which broke her family. She and her siblings wanted to move back to America, but her father wouldn't let them go. But as the author has said in the subtitle 'No one can take away your Imaginations'. She fought back for herself and for her siblings to give them the future they deserved.
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The story is very heart touching. The history of familial abuse can be heard in your society as well. And it is sad how it still exists. I don't know what drives people to be so cruel to someone close to their heart. How easily they go failing the idea of love and compassion.
This book though a short read but its depth is undetectable. In words, we cannot imagine the real pain and pessimism the author has gone through.
I took quite a time to read this one. I wanted words to soak in me to write this review.
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Writing and narration are great. From the start, I was hooked to this memoir. I had to keep telling myself that 'it's not just a story', 'it's real'.
I have no critcism against this book. Minor errors can be over viewed. Because no one is completely perfect. And why we should be? We don't want to eliminate the idea of 'Improvisation'.
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I Give this book a 4/5.
Surely, we cure it by words, actions or by the silence of our own.
--
'Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya' is a part memoir. A story of her perseverance and desire to gain what is right. The author has boldly written her story of struggles. Which she faced in 2002, when she went on a summer vacation to Nigeria, but couldn't come back because of her father's forced will, and adamant nature. It was sad and heart wrenching to read the author's story.
It's mourning when someone close to you, a birth giver starts acting as a disguised personality and that too against you.
Chinaemelum's went through her father's apprehensions which broke her family. She and her siblings wanted to move back to America, but her father wouldn't let them go. But as the author has said in the subtitle 'No one can take away your Imaginations'. She fought back for herself and for her siblings to give them the future they deserved.
--
The story is very heart touching. The history of familial abuse can be heard in your society as well. And it is sad how it still exists. I don't know what drives people to be so cruel to someone close to their heart. How easily they go failing the idea of love and compassion.
This book though a short read but its depth is undetectable. In words, we cannot imagine the real pain and pessimism the author has gone through.
I took quite a time to read this one. I wanted words to soak in me to write this review.
--
Writing and narration are great. From the start, I was hooked to this memoir. I had to keep telling myself that 'it's not just a story', 'it's real'.
I have no critcism against this book. Minor errors can be over viewed. Because no one is completely perfect. And why we should be? We don't want to eliminate the idea of 'Improvisation'.
--
I Give this book a 4/5.
July 11, 2020
Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya is a memoir. After spending 15 years in America when her father declared that they were going to Nigeria, at first she thought it's going to be a trip!
Changing of geographical location has nothing to do with a person's nature. Dealing with her father's arrogant attitude made that particular period of life hard enough.
As the mangoes in the rain face a lot but still they grow and shine, author also experienced the same.
In this short book author has tried to gather all her experiences of growing up in a country around toxic people .
This book reminds me so much of Educated by Tara. If you enjoyed that book, you'll definitely love this one.
Changing of geographical location has nothing to do with a person's nature. Dealing with her father's arrogant attitude made that particular period of life hard enough.
As the mangoes in the rain face a lot but still they grow and shine, author also experienced the same.
In this short book author has tried to gather all her experiences of growing up in a country around toxic people .
This book reminds me so much of Educated by Tara. If you enjoyed that book, you'll definitely love this one.
June 7, 2020
I don't know where to start from. I'm devastated, shook and disgusted after reading the author's life story.
" Unhealthy people cause pain in your life regardless of who they are, you have the power to decide who you surround yourself with."
The book follows the journey of Chinaemelum-the author and how she dealt with the tortures her life gave her. Beginning from her childhood she was being treated badly by her parents. Her father was strict and used to beat her for every thing he didn't like about her. Her father was a two faced man- he was a kind person for the society but for his own family he was a devil in disguise. But China used to feel secure in America because of 911 but when her father took his family to Nigeria, their lives changed for the worst. China & her siblings were trapped in Nigeria but after a few years they were able to escape the cruelty of their father. And now she's an author and have come out strong after all the abuse she had faced. I'm so proud of her.
" Children are to be loved, supported and told to dream big. Anyone who is in pain from past and/or current abuse- understand that you are loved. We all all in this together."
The story is a short read but you definitely need some time to digest the heart wrenching journey of China. I'm really so proud of her for coming out and speaking for herself and educating people about the abuse. I related her on her first flight experiences and felt how uncomfortable she was feeling all this while. The title was so apt since the author found solace in eating mangoes while staying in Nigeria. I was triggered at some of the chapters, they made me cringe to all the abuse. Overall It's a must read because I believe it took China a lot of courage to come out and speak of this on a public platform.
" Unhealthy people cause pain in your life regardless of who they are, you have the power to decide who you surround yourself with."
The book follows the journey of Chinaemelum-the author and how she dealt with the tortures her life gave her. Beginning from her childhood she was being treated badly by her parents. Her father was strict and used to beat her for every thing he didn't like about her. Her father was a two faced man- he was a kind person for the society but for his own family he was a devil in disguise. But China used to feel secure in America because of 911 but when her father took his family to Nigeria, their lives changed for the worst. China & her siblings were trapped in Nigeria but after a few years they were able to escape the cruelty of their father. And now she's an author and have come out strong after all the abuse she had faced. I'm so proud of her.
" Children are to be loved, supported and told to dream big. Anyone who is in pain from past and/or current abuse- understand that you are loved. We all all in this together."
The story is a short read but you definitely need some time to digest the heart wrenching journey of China. I'm really so proud of her for coming out and speaking for herself and educating people about the abuse. I related her on her first flight experiences and felt how uncomfortable she was feeling all this while. The title was so apt since the author found solace in eating mangoes while staying in Nigeria. I was triggered at some of the chapters, they made me cringe to all the abuse. Overall It's a must read because I believe it took China a lot of courage to come out and speak of this on a public platform.
June 11, 2020
A really touching real life story
"Labels are not what we are and we do not have to accept them"
Mangoes in the Rain is an account of the author's life as a Nigerian American who had to abandon her homeland America and dwell some unpleasant days of her life in Nigeria which was an altogether unusual and uneasy space for her.
Enlarging the difficulties, she had an awfully abusive father who in spite of being in a reputable job in the society and an educated person himself behaved toward her wife and children like dirt.
Occasionally her mother was also the same but was somewhat better than her father, so she had some hope in her.
Life simply transformed for her and she tackles her existence in Nigeria until she flees back to America.
This book is a brief one but can truly make you feel so unhappy for the author when you read it.
It has been written in freestyle so it is easy for anybody to flip through it.
It was very tough for me to visualize the condition of the children at maturing age when they need understanding, love and support of their parents but they get none.
As I reached the end there was optimism in the words and the last chapter was a motivation to read where the author has spoken about self-love and self-acceptance.
I felt this book was the best way to conquer and blab what the author faced as a child. It was indeed an emotional book to read.
Merged review:
"Labels are not what we are and we do not have to accept them"
Mangoes in the Rain is an account of the author's life as a Nigerian American who had to abandon her homeland America and dwell some unpleasant days of her life in Nigeria which was an altogether unusual and uneasy space for her.
Enlarging the difficulties, she had an awfully abusive father who in spite of being in a reputable job in the society and an educated person himself behaved toward her wife and children like dirt.
Occasionally her mother was also the same but was somewhat better than her father, so she had some hope in her.
Life simply transformed for her and she tackles her existence in Nigeria until she flees back to America.
This book is a brief one but can truly make you feel so unhappy for the author when you read it.
It has been written in freestyle so it is easy for anybody to flip through it.
It was very tough for me to visualize the condition of the children at maturing age when they need understanding, love and support of their parents but they get none.
As I reached the end there was optimism in the words and the last chapter was a motivation to read where the author has spoken about self-love and self-acceptance.
I felt this book was the best way to conquer and blab what the author faced as a child. It was indeed an emotional book to read.
"Labels are not what we are and we do not have to accept them"
Mangoes in the Rain is an account of the author's life as a Nigerian American who had to abandon her homeland America and dwell some unpleasant days of her life in Nigeria which was an altogether unusual and uneasy space for her.
Enlarging the difficulties, she had an awfully abusive father who in spite of being in a reputable job in the society and an educated person himself behaved toward her wife and children like dirt.
Occasionally her mother was also the same but was somewhat better than her father, so she had some hope in her.
Life simply transformed for her and she tackles her existence in Nigeria until she flees back to America.
This book is a brief one but can truly make you feel so unhappy for the author when you read it.
It has been written in freestyle so it is easy for anybody to flip through it.
It was very tough for me to visualize the condition of the children at maturing age when they need understanding, love and support of their parents but they get none.
As I reached the end there was optimism in the words and the last chapter was a motivation to read where the author has spoken about self-love and self-acceptance.
I felt this book was the best way to conquer and blab what the author faced as a child. It was indeed an emotional book to read.
Merged review:
"Labels are not what we are and we do not have to accept them"
Mangoes in the Rain is an account of the author's life as a Nigerian American who had to abandon her homeland America and dwell some unpleasant days of her life in Nigeria which was an altogether unusual and uneasy space for her.
Enlarging the difficulties, she had an awfully abusive father who in spite of being in a reputable job in the society and an educated person himself behaved toward her wife and children like dirt.
Occasionally her mother was also the same but was somewhat better than her father, so she had some hope in her.
Life simply transformed for her and she tackles her existence in Nigeria until she flees back to America.
This book is a brief one but can truly make you feel so unhappy for the author when you read it.
It has been written in freestyle so it is easy for anybody to flip through it.
It was very tough for me to visualize the condition of the children at maturing age when they need understanding, love and support of their parents but they get none.
As I reached the end there was optimism in the words and the last chapter was a motivation to read where the author has spoken about self-love and self-acceptance.
I felt this book was the best way to conquer and blab what the author faced as a child. It was indeed an emotional book to read.
June 13, 2020
YOU HAVE TO READ THIS BOOK! While everyone is showing support for BAME authors I believe this is a MUST READ just Wow... wow so incredible... im so truly emotional right now I just finished Mangoes in the rain and I was absolutely blown away such a raw, honest and eye opening book, you’ve been through so much and it’s incredible to me, I can’t even begin to understand your hurt and pain from your story! You are incredibly brave and inspiring for sharing it! I would recommend anyone read this story I think it will honestly shake you emotionally. The beautiful message at the end as well shows what a wonderful human you’ve grown to be after so much horror it’s absolutely remarkable. 5/5 ⭐️
June 13, 2020
The story is about the struggles of a young girl who has faced child abuse. The story starts with a girl who is looking forward to spending the summer in Nigeria. She seemed so excited for Nigeria, as all she can think of and dream about was the adventures and fun but what happens when the dream turns into a living nightmare?
She knew one thing was clear that she was safe in America, but will she be safe in Nigeria along with her father who had tortured her? All she ever wanted, was her own safety because somewhere in her head she believed her father hated her. And the thought was stuck in her mind.
There was no freedom for her she always being a listener and traumatized by her father's cruelty. She had little hope that after going from this house moving to another city everything would be fine. Will it though?
She started writing in her diary about the imagination that made her calm and believes the thing that makes her feel better.
After moving to another city she felt the same as she use to and the encounter with her father made her adventure in Nigeria a nightmare. She believes that nothing can get her out of this miserable life.
So will she be able to escape from Nigeria back to America? Will she be able to escape from her fear, trauma, and abusive father? Will she be able to fight back from all the pain and scars? Will she find someone who will help her or will she finds her own way to get out of it?
My Take :
Mangoes in the Rain is the debut novel written by Chinaemelum Menakaya and the author has beautifully expressed the story that will touch your heart and make you feel connected to the characters.
I liked the way the author has expressed each emotion as while reading this book I could imagine the pain and scars of a young girl whose childhood has been so horrible. All the characters have their own personality and the author has portrayed them perfectly. From cruelty to innocence, from fear to the reality of life, the author has described each aspect impressively.
This book is based on the brutality that a child has faced at a young age. This book makes a great impact to stop child abused makes it also motivational.
The highlight of the book is the inspirational writing of the author Chinaemelum Menakaya, who has written this fascinating story of a young girl who has faced child abuse, which is a crime to this world of humanity.
The book is written in easy to read English which will make you feel related. The title of the book and the cover is beautiful and has a deeper meaning. I loved reading this book. Unquestionably waiting to read more books of the author.
Overall a truly motivating and amazing book to read. I will definitely recommend others to read this.
She knew one thing was clear that she was safe in America, but will she be safe in Nigeria along with her father who had tortured her? All she ever wanted, was her own safety because somewhere in her head she believed her father hated her. And the thought was stuck in her mind.
There was no freedom for her she always being a listener and traumatized by her father's cruelty. She had little hope that after going from this house moving to another city everything would be fine. Will it though?
She started writing in her diary about the imagination that made her calm and believes the thing that makes her feel better.
After moving to another city she felt the same as she use to and the encounter with her father made her adventure in Nigeria a nightmare. She believes that nothing can get her out of this miserable life.
So will she be able to escape from Nigeria back to America? Will she be able to escape from her fear, trauma, and abusive father? Will she be able to fight back from all the pain and scars? Will she find someone who will help her or will she finds her own way to get out of it?
My Take :
Mangoes in the Rain is the debut novel written by Chinaemelum Menakaya and the author has beautifully expressed the story that will touch your heart and make you feel connected to the characters.
I liked the way the author has expressed each emotion as while reading this book I could imagine the pain and scars of a young girl whose childhood has been so horrible. All the characters have their own personality and the author has portrayed them perfectly. From cruelty to innocence, from fear to the reality of life, the author has described each aspect impressively.
This book is based on the brutality that a child has faced at a young age. This book makes a great impact to stop child abused makes it also motivational.
The highlight of the book is the inspirational writing of the author Chinaemelum Menakaya, who has written this fascinating story of a young girl who has faced child abuse, which is a crime to this world of humanity.
The book is written in easy to read English which will make you feel related. The title of the book and the cover is beautiful and has a deeper meaning. I loved reading this book. Unquestionably waiting to read more books of the author.
Overall a truly motivating and amazing book to read. I will definitely recommend others to read this.
June 13, 2020
Warning: triggering
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Children shouldn’t have to live in fear and feel like the
weight of the whole world is on their shoulders because of
what we they at home.
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Mangoes In the Rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya is a memoir written by the author on her life from her childhood with an abusive father that and the drastic events that led her to live a life in Nigeria even though it was against her wishes.
After being forced to leave her life in America behind, the author recounts the hardships she faced.
I was fortunate enough to grow up with supportive and loving parents, so even to think of what she had to go through was weighing heavily on my heart while turning each page.
Because this is a non-fiction book the events detailed in this book will hurt you from the inside out and soften your heart when it comes to life in the outside world that we may not even be able to fathom.
The author's way of writing it had a strong impact on me and it made it stand out from being just another memoir because of its emotional intensity.
I loved this book with all its sadness but I would definitely recommend it to anyone who does not mind a little bit of a cry and loves non-fiction.
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Rated 9.5/10
Melina L.
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Children shouldn’t have to live in fear and feel like the
weight of the whole world is on their shoulders because of
what we they at home.
🦄🦄🦄
Mangoes In the Rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya is a memoir written by the author on her life from her childhood with an abusive father that and the drastic events that led her to live a life in Nigeria even though it was against her wishes.
After being forced to leave her life in America behind, the author recounts the hardships she faced.
I was fortunate enough to grow up with supportive and loving parents, so even to think of what she had to go through was weighing heavily on my heart while turning each page.
Because this is a non-fiction book the events detailed in this book will hurt you from the inside out and soften your heart when it comes to life in the outside world that we may not even be able to fathom.
The author's way of writing it had a strong impact on me and it made it stand out from being just another memoir because of its emotional intensity.
I loved this book with all its sadness but I would definitely recommend it to anyone who does not mind a little bit of a cry and loves non-fiction.
🦄🦄🦄
Rated 9.5/10
Melina L.
June 16, 2020
Heart touching
Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya
This book is life story of author, predominantly her teenage that was spent in Nigeria.
I know the was going to be a heart clutching read, but I wasn't prepared for such intensity. What has the author not undergone? God!
"I convinced myself I was adopted. It felt good to believe I was not his daughter (though I was)"
Her father has been physically abusive all the time she spent with him. Her mother was comparatively better, but had her moments of unsympathetic treatment. Author was forced to grow beyond her age, because of experience. I can't even write about her boarding school experience now without despair.
"The amazing fact is, we can choose to drop labels, once it’s dropped, we can discover who we are and why we’re on this earth."
Its commendable and inspiring the way author has turned her life successful not just professionally but also personally. The writing brings out the emotions well. Reason for the title now makes the title even more endearing.
If you are looking for something raw, real and quick, do check it out.
TRIGGER WARNING : Physical abuse
Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya
This book is life story of author, predominantly her teenage that was spent in Nigeria.
I know the was going to be a heart clutching read, but I wasn't prepared for such intensity. What has the author not undergone? God!
"I convinced myself I was adopted. It felt good to believe I was not his daughter (though I was)"
Her father has been physically abusive all the time she spent with him. Her mother was comparatively better, but had her moments of unsympathetic treatment. Author was forced to grow beyond her age, because of experience. I can't even write about her boarding school experience now without despair.
"The amazing fact is, we can choose to drop labels, once it’s dropped, we can discover who we are and why we’re on this earth."
Its commendable and inspiring the way author has turned her life successful not just professionally but also personally. The writing brings out the emotions well. Reason for the title now makes the title even more endearing.
If you are looking for something raw, real and quick, do check it out.
TRIGGER WARNING : Physical abuse
May 22, 2020
Reading right into this book pushed me into a reality that I might have been ungrateful of how I grew up. Childhood was rough for me but not as traumatic as this. "Mangoes in the rain" developed tears in my eyes and sores in my spirit, darkness in my soul and pain in my heart; maybe because I had my own share while growing up. Nonetheless, nobody should go through that: not an adult, not a child; not anyone!
Great job Lavender Menakaya! You not only told a true life story, you just voiced the frustration and trauma of many people. I couldn't stop reading till the last full stop, eagerly looking for when salvation would come and how. This is not just a book to read, it is a book to heal. it's a reflection of the potholes in African parenting as it perches on child abuse, violations of rights and oppression orchestrated by ego and chauvinism.
One saving grace this book has is that it not only captures the disappointments, darkness, nightmares and helplessness that the African culture could put a child through; it has some redemption embedded in it, some light at the end of the tunnel. This plainly just tells us everything is going to be alright, it's just a matter of time.
I'm glad I read this book; "Mangoes in the rain" by Lavender Menakaya, maybe I can finally forgive my father and free my soul from so much pain and desperation for vengeance.
This is a must read for everyone, whoever it is, you will find your own corner to connect with: whether freedom from pain in the past or hope of being a better person in the future. Whichever one it is, you won't be the same again.
Adegbite Dolapo
21/05/2020
Great job Lavender Menakaya! You not only told a true life story, you just voiced the frustration and trauma of many people. I couldn't stop reading till the last full stop, eagerly looking for when salvation would come and how. This is not just a book to read, it is a book to heal. it's a reflection of the potholes in African parenting as it perches on child abuse, violations of rights and oppression orchestrated by ego and chauvinism.
One saving grace this book has is that it not only captures the disappointments, darkness, nightmares and helplessness that the African culture could put a child through; it has some redemption embedded in it, some light at the end of the tunnel. This plainly just tells us everything is going to be alright, it's just a matter of time.
I'm glad I read this book; "Mangoes in the rain" by Lavender Menakaya, maybe I can finally forgive my father and free my soul from so much pain and desperation for vengeance.
This is a must read for everyone, whoever it is, you will find your own corner to connect with: whether freedom from pain in the past or hope of being a better person in the future. Whichever one it is, you won't be the same again.
Adegbite Dolapo
21/05/2020
January 17, 2020
Wonderful and Sad
I thought this book was so very readable. I am so sad that any child has to endure this kind of brutality.
Lavie is a beautiful, accomplished woman.
Her young life was astonishing in its emptiness of care.
She is a remarkable person.
I thought this book was so very readable. I am so sad that any child has to endure this kind of brutality.
Lavie is a beautiful, accomplished woman.
Her young life was astonishing in its emptiness of care.
She is a remarkable person.
June 22, 2020
//NOT EVERY FAMILY IS A HAPPY FAMILY//
Mangoes in the rain is actually a non fiction sharing real life experiences of author where her family is extremely abusive, especially father. She shares how her father shifted the family from America to Nigeria and how she struggles there. Not only this, but she was being called by extremely insulting names at the very young age. How do you think she overcame from this?
Writing style is so lucid and convincing that can actually make you cry if you have had similar experiences ever in your past.
What I liked the most about this book is the honesty and bravery with which author wrote this book as it's not easy to write every single detail in a book that anyone can read. I really loved her courage for writing this book. More power to her!
I recommend this book to everyone so that they can learn and understand why they need to be kind to everyone.
Mangoes in the rain is actually a non fiction sharing real life experiences of author where her family is extremely abusive, especially father. She shares how her father shifted the family from America to Nigeria and how she struggles there. Not only this, but she was being called by extremely insulting names at the very young age. How do you think she overcame from this?
Writing style is so lucid and convincing that can actually make you cry if you have had similar experiences ever in your past.
What I liked the most about this book is the honesty and bravery with which author wrote this book as it's not easy to write every single detail in a book that anyone can read. I really loved her courage for writing this book. More power to her!
I recommend this book to everyone so that they can learn and understand why they need to be kind to everyone.
April 8, 2021
This book touched my deeply and was hard to read at times. I can’t imagine what it must have been like. It’s a really heartbreaking story with a beautiful message. Children should always be loved. I’m really proud of her for sharing her story.
October 26, 2020
Mangoes in the Rain: No one can take away your Imaginations
By - Chinaemelum Menakaya
Format – Kindle Edition
Genre – Non-Fiction
Print Length – 84 Pages
My Ratings – 4.6/5
💫Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya is a memoir, in which the author recalled her experience, the hardship she had gone through as a result of having abusive parents, along the side she had long spoken about 'Child Abuse.
📚 The plot centres around the Author, she was brought up by Christian Minister and his wife, openly revealing themselves to be God-fearing couples, but Author saw her father beating her mother behind the closed doors and even bullying her and calling her a slut when she was just 13.
📚 She leaves America at 15, to go to Nigeria for a summer break. But after the split, her father declined to give her passport back and forced her to go to boarding school. After a while, she fled from her father with her siblings and went to Embassy for help.
📚 Go and Grab yours copy of the book to know what happens further and to learn something from this book as I’m sure that this book has something to teach us as Author talks about self-love and self-acceptance in the end.
My Review –
🌟Title of the book and book cover are closely relatable as what we see on the book cover is same as what the Title is. Author’s writing style is really brilliant.
🌟Language was quite easy and this book is a short read and can be read within an hour but at the same time it will keep you hooked as well.
🌟It is commendable and encouraging the way the author has made her life a success, not just professionally but also socially.
🌟The story is really painful and I guess few can relate to this if they had faced any thing like that. I really like that how she came out of this and is now an Author and this is so appreciable.
🌟My heart goes out to the author, and she is really a remarkable individual. I will definitely recommend this book to others out there, too.
Happy Reading😊
By - Chinaemelum Menakaya
Format – Kindle Edition
Genre – Non-Fiction
Print Length – 84 Pages
My Ratings – 4.6/5
💫Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya is a memoir, in which the author recalled her experience, the hardship she had gone through as a result of having abusive parents, along the side she had long spoken about 'Child Abuse.
📚 The plot centres around the Author, she was brought up by Christian Minister and his wife, openly revealing themselves to be God-fearing couples, but Author saw her father beating her mother behind the closed doors and even bullying her and calling her a slut when she was just 13.
📚 She leaves America at 15, to go to Nigeria for a summer break. But after the split, her father declined to give her passport back and forced her to go to boarding school. After a while, she fled from her father with her siblings and went to Embassy for help.
📚 Go and Grab yours copy of the book to know what happens further and to learn something from this book as I’m sure that this book has something to teach us as Author talks about self-love and self-acceptance in the end.
My Review –
🌟Title of the book and book cover are closely relatable as what we see on the book cover is same as what the Title is. Author’s writing style is really brilliant.
🌟Language was quite easy and this book is a short read and can be read within an hour but at the same time it will keep you hooked as well.
🌟It is commendable and encouraging the way the author has made her life a success, not just professionally but also socially.
🌟The story is really painful and I guess few can relate to this if they had faced any thing like that. I really like that how she came out of this and is now an Author and this is so appreciable.
🌟My heart goes out to the author, and she is really a remarkable individual. I will definitely recommend this book to others out there, too.
Happy Reading😊
November 3, 2020
It's been a long time where I read a true story. A story which was so inspiring. The book called "Mangoes in the Rain: No one can take away your Imaginations". When I read the title I never thought expected he book to be too nice. The title is a nice and an inspiring one and the cover on the other hand is a very basic yet attractive one. So for the cover and the title I would like to give is a 2 out of 2.
Talking about the content of the book, So the author when she as 15 years of age left America for the summer break and came back to Nigeria. Where she as held by her father and he refused to give her the passport. She was tortured there. The abusive environment and the vibe that I got while reading the story trust me I was so emotional that I walked to my mom and dad and gave them a big hug. I thanked God for what I had and prayed for people who are in problem like the author faced. Every part of the story was real although if by any means it was possible for me to give you a book to read where the I had changed the name of the characters I am sure you wouldn't believe the story was a true one. The way it was narrated was very nice and I am so inspired after reading the book that I believe that nothing is Impossible. The lesson this book taught me was that one should never judge anyone on basis of anything like you never know the person beside you may be something worst that you could never imagine. I am so thankful of the author for giving me such an experience through the book. I just know that the journey this book shows is something I would have easily given up upon if it was something related to me. So for the content the book deserves a 2/2.
Talking about the words and the language used in the book in terms of the difficulty, I would rate it a Level 2 and I personally didn't face any difficulty while reading the book. So what are you waiting for go grab your copy fast.
Talking about the content of the book, So the author when she as 15 years of age left America for the summer break and came back to Nigeria. Where she as held by her father and he refused to give her the passport. She was tortured there. The abusive environment and the vibe that I got while reading the story trust me I was so emotional that I walked to my mom and dad and gave them a big hug. I thanked God for what I had and prayed for people who are in problem like the author faced. Every part of the story was real although if by any means it was possible for me to give you a book to read where the I had changed the name of the characters I am sure you wouldn't believe the story was a true one. The way it was narrated was very nice and I am so inspired after reading the book that I believe that nothing is Impossible. The lesson this book taught me was that one should never judge anyone on basis of anything like you never know the person beside you may be something worst that you could never imagine. I am so thankful of the author for giving me such an experience through the book. I just know that the journey this book shows is something I would have easily given up upon if it was something related to me. So for the content the book deserves a 2/2.
Talking about the words and the language used in the book in terms of the difficulty, I would rate it a Level 2 and I personally didn't face any difficulty while reading the book. So what are you waiting for go grab your copy fast.
November 10, 2020
BOOK REVIEW
AUTHOR:- CHINAEMELUM MENAKAYA
FORMAT:- KINDLE
LENGTH:- 84 PAGES
➡️ Through the book MANGOES UNDER THE RAIN author has shared her childhood experience and talked about her bad past. The book is a short read and can be easily finished in a sitting as the story is so engaging and good.
✍🏻 The author openly talks about her struggle and suffering. Her father was not so supportive and good as the world would see. He was a violent man, who used to beat her mother, and more pathetic is the fact that he used to abuse her little child and say words like prostitute to a 13 year old girl.
✍🏻 Also in the summer break of 2002 when the author went back to Nigeria from Amercia , she was not allowed to go back to America by her father and also she was forcefully admitted to a all girls boarding school. Life was becoming a hell for her growth.
➡️She faced so many problems, life was becoming very ugly for her. But I am very motivated after reading how the author came back and achieved success.
🙏You guys need to grab the book to know that
➡️ The author has kept everything simple and honest which I liked the most about the book. The narration is so readers friendly , that I can't even describe. You will feel so connected and engaged.
➡️ The book cover is decent and title is also suitable according to the story. Overall first impressions of the book are good , and content is superb. There are alot of emotions and sensitive incidents that I felt very emotional. But I think the purpose of writing the book is achieved as it will definitely boost everyone and motivate them to never lose hope.
AUTHOR:- CHINAEMELUM MENAKAYA
FORMAT:- KINDLE
LENGTH:- 84 PAGES
➡️ Through the book MANGOES UNDER THE RAIN author has shared her childhood experience and talked about her bad past. The book is a short read and can be easily finished in a sitting as the story is so engaging and good.
✍🏻 The author openly talks about her struggle and suffering. Her father was not so supportive and good as the world would see. He was a violent man, who used to beat her mother, and more pathetic is the fact that he used to abuse her little child and say words like prostitute to a 13 year old girl.
✍🏻 Also in the summer break of 2002 when the author went back to Nigeria from Amercia , she was not allowed to go back to America by her father and also she was forcefully admitted to a all girls boarding school. Life was becoming a hell for her growth.
➡️She faced so many problems, life was becoming very ugly for her. But I am very motivated after reading how the author came back and achieved success.
🙏You guys need to grab the book to know that
➡️ The author has kept everything simple and honest which I liked the most about the book. The narration is so readers friendly , that I can't even describe. You will feel so connected and engaged.
➡️ The book cover is decent and title is also suitable according to the story. Overall first impressions of the book are good , and content is superb. There are alot of emotions and sensitive incidents that I felt very emotional. But I think the purpose of writing the book is achieved as it will definitely boost everyone and motivate them to never lose hope.
July 11, 2020
Great read.
"Labels are not who we are, and we do not have to accept them. The surprising fact is, we can choose to drop labels, and once it’s fallen, we can discover who we are and why we’re on this earth."
Book- Mangoes in the Rain
Author- Chinaemelum Menakaya
Mangoes in the Rain is an account of the author's life from teenage to adulthood. At the age fifteen she leaves America during a summer break to Nigeria but while packing little did she know that this trip would turn her world up side down. The break duration was over but her father refused to handover their passports to return back to America. Her mother left, she along her siblings were left alone with their abusive father. She was admitted in a boarding school, life was tough for her. After few years they successfully escaped from her father's house with a ray of hope. But life wasn't smooth, she was distraughted. Though she was back in America but her innocence was taken away, the days in Nigeria was still affecting her.
This is such a heartfelt read, the author's father was abusive towards her mother and also towards her at such a tender age. Children's brain gets affected alot at such young age, family tensions affects them at such level sometimes adults fail to understand.
The language she used was lucid and had a reflection of the pain she went through. But the end was inspiring, motivating. Overcoming everything negative she managed to shine brightly.
"Labels are not who we are, and we do not have to accept them. The surprising fact is, we can choose to drop labels, and once it’s fallen, we can discover who we are and why we’re on this earth."
Book- Mangoes in the Rain
Author- Chinaemelum Menakaya
Mangoes in the Rain is an account of the author's life from teenage to adulthood. At the age fifteen she leaves America during a summer break to Nigeria but while packing little did she know that this trip would turn her world up side down. The break duration was over but her father refused to handover their passports to return back to America. Her mother left, she along her siblings were left alone with their abusive father. She was admitted in a boarding school, life was tough for her. After few years they successfully escaped from her father's house with a ray of hope. But life wasn't smooth, she was distraughted. Though she was back in America but her innocence was taken away, the days in Nigeria was still affecting her.
This is such a heartfelt read, the author's father was abusive towards her mother and also towards her at such a tender age. Children's brain gets affected alot at such young age, family tensions affects them at such level sometimes adults fail to understand.
The language she used was lucid and had a reflection of the pain she went through. But the end was inspiring, motivating. Overcoming everything negative she managed to shine brightly.
October 28, 2020
Mangoes in the Rain tells the storey of the author's life as a Nigerian American who had to leave her home country America and spend some unpleasant days in Nigeria, a position that was strange and inconvenient for her.
✨The novel follows the journey of the writer, Chinaemelum, and how she treated her life's tortures. She was treated poorly by her parents from her childhood onwards. Her father was stern and used to beat her because he didn't like everything about her. His father was a two-headed man, a friendly man, but he was a demon in disguise for his kin.
✨But China used to be healthy in America in 911, but their lives changed worse when the father took his family to Nigeria. In Nigeria, China and its siblings were imprisoned but after a few years, they managed to flee their father's brutality. And now, despite all the violence that she endured, she is a writer and she came out big.
✨He began to write about the creativity in her diary which gave her comfort and believed the thing she felt stronger. She felt the same after moving to another place, and the meeting with her dad made her trip a nightmare in Nigeria. She thinks her to get more out of this wretched life.
✨At the end, hope was contained in the sentences, and the last chapter read where the speaker spoke about self-love and acceptance. I thought this book was the most powerful way to win and blackmail what the author as a child faced. It was actually an emotional read book
✨The novel follows the journey of the writer, Chinaemelum, and how she treated her life's tortures. She was treated poorly by her parents from her childhood onwards. Her father was stern and used to beat her because he didn't like everything about her. His father was a two-headed man, a friendly man, but he was a demon in disguise for his kin.
✨But China used to be healthy in America in 911, but their lives changed worse when the father took his family to Nigeria. In Nigeria, China and its siblings were imprisoned but after a few years, they managed to flee their father's brutality. And now, despite all the violence that she endured, she is a writer and she came out big.
✨He began to write about the creativity in her diary which gave her comfort and believed the thing she felt stronger. She felt the same after moving to another place, and the meeting with her dad made her trip a nightmare in Nigeria. She thinks her to get more out of this wretched life.
✨At the end, hope was contained in the sentences, and the last chapter read where the speaker spoke about self-love and acceptance. I thought this book was the most powerful way to win and blackmail what the author as a child faced. It was actually an emotional read book
July 18, 2020
Written Review Of "Mangoes In The Rain" By Chinaemelum Menakaya.
Available On : Amazom
Pages : 84
Genre : Family & Parenting
Its A Story Of An Author's Life How Her Childhood Is A Mess & Had Faced Many Problem Because Of Her Abusive Parents.
Here Author Shared Her Own Experience With Child Abuse & How When Her Father Put Her In An All Girl Boarding School She Has To Take Care Of Herself
Its An Serious Issue. As An Indian I Can Relate More As Its Comman Here, We See A Lot Of Parents Hit Thier Child Even In An Open & Its Not An Crime Here But Sometimes Its Broke The Child Emotionally & Mentally.
The Vocabulary Of The Book Is Good & Author Has Narrated Her Story Very Nicely And The Language Of The Book Is Also Easy So Even If You're A Beginner You Can Read It Easily.
The Story Is Enagaging & The Cover Of ThevBook Is Also Good & I Really Liked The Cover.
I Highly Recommend This Book To All The Readers.
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My Ratings 5/5
Available On : Amazom
Pages : 84
Genre : Family & Parenting
Its A Story Of An Author's Life How Her Childhood Is A Mess & Had Faced Many Problem Because Of Her Abusive Parents.
Here Author Shared Her Own Experience With Child Abuse & How When Her Father Put Her In An All Girl Boarding School She Has To Take Care Of Herself
Its An Serious Issue. As An Indian I Can Relate More As Its Comman Here, We See A Lot Of Parents Hit Thier Child Even In An Open & Its Not An Crime Here But Sometimes Its Broke The Child Emotionally & Mentally.
The Vocabulary Of The Book Is Good & Author Has Narrated Her Story Very Nicely And The Language Of The Book Is Also Easy So Even If You're A Beginner You Can Read It Easily.
The Story Is Enagaging & The Cover Of ThevBook Is Also Good & I Really Liked The Cover.
I Highly Recommend This Book To All The Readers.
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My Ratings 5/5
August 16, 2020
This heartfelt memoir details Chinaemelum Menakaya’s childhood living in a toxic environment. After spending the first 15 years of her life in America, Chinaemelum’s father decided that they were going to Nigeria. The anxiety she felt about being trapped in a new place with an abusive father could be felt through the pages. I can’t imagine the pain and hurt she must have felt on a daily basis. Home is supposed to be a safe place. At the end of her memoir, Chinaemelum details how she works to cope with her past. She also shares her thoughts on the way in which she grew up and why it’s important for children to grow up in a healthy family environment. At just over 100 pages, my only wish was for the book to be longer. I wasn’t ready to be done with Chinaemelum’s story. If you enjoy raw and emotion-filled memoirs, this one is for you.
July 27, 2020
This is a memoir of the childhood events leading up to and including the author's time spent in Nigeria with her father. He held her there against her will for two and a half extremely difficult years, suffering various forms of abuse, after her mom returned to the United States.
This was tough to read at times and my heart hurt for the challenges she had to live through. I admire her courage and desire to create the life she wants to live despite the circumstances of her upbringing. I also admire the bravery it took to write this book and share her experiences. The resilience of the human spirit is truly amazing and her story will help encourage many others facing childhood trauma and abuse.
Thank you so much to the author @hopesofavirgo for gifting me your book and your story.
This was tough to read at times and my heart hurt for the challenges she had to live through. I admire her courage and desire to create the life she wants to live despite the circumstances of her upbringing. I also admire the bravery it took to write this book and share her experiences. The resilience of the human spirit is truly amazing and her story will help encourage many others facing childhood trauma and abuse.
Thank you so much to the author @hopesofavirgo for gifting me your book and your story.
February 16, 2021
This story is filled with conflict, emotional roller-coasters, and eye-opening revelations. It is a tale of of having a life upended by a virtual exile to Africa according to the will of a dictatorial and abusive father.. Never-the-less the main character shows endurance, resilience, and a quality of character that gets her through the ordeal. The one thing that would make this stream-of-consciousness tale a bit easier to read would be to have clearer scene transitions in the initial six chapters. The flashbacks to life in the U.S. from the trip to Africa are a bit confusing as it is hard to tell which part is where until you get the idea from the overall patterns of the chapters. The title-related image of eating mangoes in the rain is poetically perfect for this sad tale.
August 21, 2020
✨Heartfelt Review ✨
Thank you @hopesofavirgo for sharing a copy of your memoir with me.💕
There are more than a few powerful quotes in this read that I will carry with me for a lifetime. For example;
👉🏼”Unhealthy people cause pain in your life regardless of who they are, you have the power to decide who you surround yourself with”.
👉🏼”Labels are not what we are and we do not have to accept them”.
Mangoes in the Rain is a touching memoir recounting the authors toxic and terrifying family environment. The struggles and triumphs of overcoming incredible odds left me with a roller coaster of emotions.
Much admiration for her courage, strength and resilience in paving a life by her rules 🙌🏼
Thank you @hopesofavirgo for sharing a copy of your memoir with me.💕
There are more than a few powerful quotes in this read that I will carry with me for a lifetime. For example;
👉🏼”Unhealthy people cause pain in your life regardless of who they are, you have the power to decide who you surround yourself with”.
👉🏼”Labels are not what we are and we do not have to accept them”.
Mangoes in the Rain is a touching memoir recounting the authors toxic and terrifying family environment. The struggles and triumphs of overcoming incredible odds left me with a roller coaster of emotions.
Much admiration for her courage, strength and resilience in paving a life by her rules 🙌🏼
October 20, 2020
Really Hits Home
I really felt the emotion in this book. The abuse from her father and the abandonment from her mother. It just pains me how Nigerian men are (especially my father). You just wonder if they even have a soul. I loved that she at least kept some type of positivity even if it was just eating mangoes in the rain that calmed her.
I would recommend this book to anyone experiencing family dysfunction or to anyone that doesn't understand family dysfunction. It really opens your eyes to how you can overcome the crap life you were given and turn it into something beautiful.
Good Job Lavender!
I really felt the emotion in this book. The abuse from her father and the abandonment from her mother. It just pains me how Nigerian men are (especially my father). You just wonder if they even have a soul. I loved that she at least kept some type of positivity even if it was just eating mangoes in the rain that calmed her.
I would recommend this book to anyone experiencing family dysfunction or to anyone that doesn't understand family dysfunction. It really opens your eyes to how you can overcome the crap life you were given and turn it into something beautiful.
Good Job Lavender!
July 12, 2020
This is a sad but poignant memoir of a young girl surviving a violent and toxic family environment. During this time the author felt she didn’t have a voice but when she overcomes her worries and finds her self-worth she also finds her voice and put all those feelings into Mangoes in the Rain. Writing was her way to cope and in turn, with this book has been her way of processing what happened during her childhood.
June 28, 2020
🍃Mangoes in the rain by Chinaemelum Menakaya is a memoir, where the author recounted her past, the struggle she went through as a result of having abusive parents, along side that she discussed about 'Child Abuse' at length.
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🍃Truly it was an eye-opening read for me, we're aware of the term 'Child Abuse' but little do we know what a child goes through, feeling vulnerable in their own house, around people who are the ones should make them feel the safest.
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🍃Being a victim of the same, author shared her own experience, how she was beaten and tortured by her father, sometimes being around her mother used to give her some peace but soon that too was snatched away. In the name of summer break she and her siblings were taken to Nigeria, her father's house and puts her in an all girls boarding school where she had to survive two and a half years.
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🍃Other than being an eye-opening read, it was heart-wrenching too. While reading, every now and then it made me wonder what I would have done if I had been in her place, at the same time I realized how fortunate I am to have such supportive parents.
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🍃The pain was reflecting in her writing, I loved how the story ended on a positive note, it was really inspiring!
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🍃Overall, it's a short but an impactful read.
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🍃Truly it was an eye-opening read for me, we're aware of the term 'Child Abuse' but little do we know what a child goes through, feeling vulnerable in their own house, around people who are the ones should make them feel the safest.
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🍃Being a victim of the same, author shared her own experience, how she was beaten and tortured by her father, sometimes being around her mother used to give her some peace but soon that too was snatched away. In the name of summer break she and her siblings were taken to Nigeria, her father's house and puts her in an all girls boarding school where she had to survive two and a half years.
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🍃Other than being an eye-opening read, it was heart-wrenching too. While reading, every now and then it made me wonder what I would have done if I had been in her place, at the same time I realized how fortunate I am to have such supportive parents.
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🍃The pain was reflecting in her writing, I loved how the story ended on a positive note, it was really inspiring!
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🍃Overall, it's a short but an impactful read.
June 8, 2020
🌻It's been long, I haven't read so triggering, when I picked this book I was sure it has a lot to say to me and every single reader. Since, it's a non-fiction I won't judge the content but definitely this was one of those books which will leave the reader speechless. I cannot express how I feel about it, it's maybe because I am still into the world created by the author, it was horrible. Being a kid and teenager, she has to face a lot, it's her story for survival in the darkest hour when her father abused her own mother, he abused China as well, he objectified women, even his own girl. I just cannot think about what and how the author must be feeling about it.
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It was truly brave of her to talk about it, the language is so bold and it's just so triggering, it just poked a dragger in my chest, I cannot get over China's story! This should be read by all men and women because I think her voice shouldn't go unheard, maybe this time. Must try.
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Rating: 4🌟
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It was truly brave of her to talk about it, the language is so bold and it's just so triggering, it just poked a dragger in my chest, I cannot get over China's story! This should be read by all men and women because I think her voice shouldn't go unheard, maybe this time. Must try.
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Rating: 4🌟
June 2, 2020
A tale of having to overcome.
The grammar and punctuation could be improved, as well as more illuminating descriptions of people and places. The rat eating calluses off her feet was particularly horrifying. That being said for someone who did not finish high school in the States, it is a good first shot at a book!
The grammar and punctuation could be improved, as well as more illuminating descriptions of people and places. The rat eating calluses off her feet was particularly horrifying. That being said for someone who did not finish high school in the States, it is a good first shot at a book!
September 21, 2021
This book, while difficult to read in some parts, is the memoir of a young girl with a very rough go at life! It was thought-provoking, raw and so emotional, but I couldn’t put it down.
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