Martha Graham-Waldon Interview Published on: 03, Aug 2026
What inspired you to write "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia," and why did you feel it was important to share your family's story?
I wrote my memoir as a way of coming to terms with my past and the traumatic experiences I had. Writing it was a very healing and cathartic experience for me in that regard. But I also wanted to share my story in hopes that it would help others, especially young people and families navigating through the rough waters when mental issues first surfaces. There is a period of adjustment for the entire family after the diagnosis of a mental health disorder.
Your memoir "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia" explores the impact of schizophrenia on an entire family. What was the most challenging aspect of writing about such deeply personal experiences?Reliving everything that happened although I would have to do that whether I wrote a book or not. Reflecting on my experiences helped me in the healing process.
How has your relationship with your sibling influenced your understanding of mental illness and resilience?I accepted her illness like any other illness and accepted her for who she was. The memory part of my memoir let me treasure our childhood experiences. I feel this is very important.
"Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia" has recently been released in a second edition. What updates or new perspectives did you want to include for today's readers?The second edition contains new material—photos and a touching epilogue describing how I was reunited with her daughter. This brings the story full circle.
What misconceptions about schizophrenia do you hope "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia" helps to address?I hope people will learn the importance of combating the stigma around mental illness. Mental illness is a medical illness like any other physical illness, diabetes for example. With treatment, there is recovery and hope.
As a mental health advocate, what changes have you observed in public conversations about mental illness since you first began sharing your story?We now know how widespread these problems are. One it five people will experience mental illness and one in four teenagers. Sadly, many of these individuals will not seek help because of the stigma associated with mental illness.
How did writing "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia" contribute to your own healing, understanding, or personal growth?The writing process allowed me to reflect on my past, on the good and the bad experiences and to treasure my memories. I appreciated what I had overcome and this led to my personal growth.
Many families struggle silently when a loved one has a serious mental illness. What message would you most like those families to take away from "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia"?Early treatment and diagnosis are key, so you should seek professional help if you or a family member is experiencing a mental health crisis. These days there is a lot of help available through NAMI and other organizations.
You have written articles for local, international, and online publications. How does writing memoir differ from writing journalism or advocacy pieces?Memoir writing is more personally probing and more difficult but ultimately more rewarding in my opinion.
Winning the 2015 Women’s Memoirs contest for a vignette based on your memoir was a significant achievement. How did that recognition influence your confidence and journey as an author?It encouraged me to continue writing.
Mental health advocacy often involves balancing honesty with sensitivity. How did you navigate that balance while telling your family's story in "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia"?When I finished my first draft and found a publisher, I spoke to members of my family and allowed them to read the manuscript in case they were not comfortable with being included in the story. I am very fortunate to have a very supportive family and they all agreed to be included and even allowed me to use their real names!
What role did research, medical understanding, or conversations with professionals play in shaping "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia"?My association with NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Health has been invaluable in offering medical research as well as personal support. I would encourage anyone needing help to contact their local chapter.
Beyond advocacy, you enjoy travel, nature, exercise, and music. How have these interests helped you maintain balance while dealing with emotionally demanding subjects?Doing the things we love keeps us healthy mentally and physically. I was able to take breaks as I was writing my book to do things like walking the dog which would always help keep me on track.
What has been the most memorable feedback you've received from readers of "Nothing Like Normal—Surviving a Sibling’s Schizophrenia"?I have received lots of beautiful feedback from readers telling me how my book helped them cope with their familial situations. In some cases, it has also helped them to deal with their loss. The reviews have been the most touching such as:
If you ever had a family member suffer from schizophrenia, this book is comforting.
Looking back on your publishing journey, how has your experience with AllAuthor contributed to connecting with readers and promoting your work?All Author posts have helped reach more readers and increased my books circulation. I am very pleased with the result!
