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Me and My Shadow: Memoirs of a Cancer Survivor Kindle Edition
Me and My Shadow – Memoirs of a Cancer Survivor is a brutally honest account of one teenager’s struggle to understand and deal with the most feared diagnosis known to society: cancer.
At 18 years of age, John Walker Pattison was thrust onto a roller coaster ride of emotional turbulence – his innocence cruelly stripped from him; his fate woven into the tapestry of life.
After years of failed chemotherapy and radiotherapy treatments that ravaged his physical frame and almost destroyed his psychological stability – his parents were told that he would not survive. Yet, today, he is one of the longest surviving cancer patients in the UK.
Eight years after his unexpected recovery, the news that all parents fear, his daughter is diagnosed with terminal leukaemia. Yet like her father, she too would defy the odds and go on to become an international swimmer.
Pattison turned his life full circle and became a cancer nurse specialist at the same hospital that made his diagnosis decades earlier. He prescribes chemotherapy and cares for individuals with the same cancers experienced by both him and his daughter.
Throughout his journey, Pattison’s inspirations were the space rock legends, Hawkwind. He would get to play on stage with his heroes at the Donnington Festival in 2007.
More significantly, he found solace throughout his cancer journey in the history and spirituality of the Lakota Sioux Nation. In 2018, he would spend time on Pine Ridge Indian Reservation with the indigenous people of South Dakota. The same people who, unknowingly, supported him through life's greatest challenge: cancer.
Editorial Reviews
Review
Me and My Shadow is an inspiring memoir by John Walker Pattison in the year 2022. The book follows our author John who is a cancer survivor. He is a nice man, a lovely husband, and an awesome father who lived the life of a survivor and became stronger and more humble.
The book cover really gave me lively vibes, the content in the book resonates well with the book cover as it signifies a person can have multiple phases of life.
Book Review: Me and My Shadow by John W. Pattison
It is a story of a warrior who not only fought for his own life but also lived the near-death experience of his daughter Donna due to leukaemia.
"When you get a life live it to the fullest because not everyone gets one" after reading this line, I know one thing - life is so precious never take it for granted.
The book is a memoir of John Pattison who shares his real-life journey of overcoming cancer which he had suffered when he was only a teenager and also reflects upon his fears when his daughter was battling cancer.
It is a heart-wrenching and emotional book from the author who not only survived cancer but also gives a glimmer of hope to many people suffering from life-threatening diseases.
Literary Titan: April 16th 2024. (Five stars)
Me and My Shadow by John Walker Pattison is a deeply personal account of his lifelong journey with cancer, exploring his roles as a patient, father, and nurse. Pattison opens his story with a childhood overshadowed by a cancer diagnosis, a fact kept hidden by his parents. This narrative takes us through the complexities of his treatment, its enduring physical and psychological impacts, and the isolation from normal childhood experiences.
Pattison's story extends beyond his own battle with the disease. As a father, he recounts the heart-wrenching experience of supporting his daughter through her own cancer treatment, a chapter that lends a poignant depth to his narrative. His dual perspective as both patient and caregiver enriches the book, culminating in his decision to become a nurse. Here, Pattison's personal insights blend with professional care, offering a unique view into the world of healthcare.
The book does more than just shed light on the cancer experience. It delves into the broader tapestry of Pattison's life, including his exploration of Native American cultures, a vibrant childhood, a passion for rock music, and reflections on a challenging marriage. These varied experiences contribute to the richness of the memoir, painting a fuller picture of the author beyond his identity as a cancer survivor. This book resonates with authenticity and understanding for those touched by cancer, whether personally or through a loved one. Healthcare professionals, too, may find valuable lessons in Pattison's insights on patient care. The book weaves together heartfelt stories and reflections, revealing life's unpredictability and the importance of resilience.
Pattison's narrative is more than a memoir; it is a testament to the enduring human spirit in the face of adversity. His candid reflections and thoughtful observations offer a window into the complexities of living with and beyond cancer. Me and My Shadow is not just a story of survival but an invitation to embrace each moment of life with appreciation and awareness.
For the Love of the Page: (Jill Rey) February 4th 2024: (Five stars)
Cancer affects those it encounters more than just physically. There are emotional impacts, psychological impacts, and lifelong influences resulting from the disease.
Author John Walker Pattison, born in 1957, admits to having a rather uneventful childhood. While fun, happy, and full of life, nothing so newsworthy about his childhood would prompt a memoir.
Until 1975, at the age of eighteen when he begins experiencing bouts of fatigue. So notable in fact that after climbing down into the cofferdams of a boat he is meant to be welding, he is found sleeping after missing lunch. Time and time again his family doctor writes it off as something less life threatening until he is admitted to the hospital with suspected appendicitis. Tests, x-rays, pokes, and a series of investigations follow. Resulting in our author being given no type of explanation, at least as far as he's aware. Learning later that his parents, in what they thought was an attempt to protect him, hid the truth of his cancer diagnosis.
What follows is the toll this diagnosis took on him, his unrelenting love for Hawkwind and the unexpected support the Lakota Sioux Nation provided to him during his stage IV Hodgkin Lymphoma battle.
As a reader this memoir had a unique contribution to the field of cancer survivors. Surviving stage IV lymphoma through the various treatments and long-term effects is an impressive and statistically unlikely event given his response to the treatment and options. However, it's the forty-seven-year survival, career pivot working thirty-two years as a nurse in cancer services, and his daughter also battling cancer at a young age that truly set this read apart from the rest. The brutal honesty about his thoughts, psychological well-being, and treatment effects, open readers' eyes to the gut-wrenching diagnosis of cancer and the guilt and responsibility that are placed on patient's shoulders.
But the ongoing life he lives, dedication to the field of nursing in the same hospitals that treated him, and the comfort he found in Hawkwind and the Lakota Sioux Nation all these years later makes this a memorable read even after the last page is turned.
Black Tie Magazine, February, 2024.
Written by John Walker Pattison, 'Me and My Shadow' is as awe-inspiring as it is unbelievable. Diagnosed with cancer at a young age, the author was told he wouldn't live to see his hair turn grey. Defying those odds, the author is now not only a survivor but a grandfather.
In this gripping memoir, Pattison shares his extraordinary battle with cancer, how he found solace in spirituality and space rock and the journey to becoming one of the UK's longest-surviving cancer patients.
The memoir takes the reader through the tumultuous years of Pattison's youth, marked by aggressive chemotherapy and radiotherapy treatments that tested the limits of his endurance, to a staggering blow that he never saw coming - the heart-wrenching moment when his daughter was diagnosed with terminal leukaemia, and like her father, defied the odds.
A rare glimpse into the emotional and physical trials of cancer 'Me and My Shadow' is filled with raw honesty and is a true testament to Pattison's life-long commitment to helping others fighting
similar battles.
The Reading Bud (Heena R. Pardeshi) February 2nd 2023 (Five stars)
Me and My Shadow: Memoirs of a Cancer Survivor by John Walker Pattison is a gut-wrenching, eye-opening and heart-melting read from the author who shares his experience of not only living with cancer but also overcoming it, having been through seeing his daughter having it and seeing her overcome it. This book is an emotional roller-coaster of ups and downs that the author had experienced throughout his life, since his teenage years when he was diagnosed with terminal cancer.
This book serves as s tremendous source of information and inspiration because it has a lot to offer to all its readers. The emotional turmoil in the book conveys the hardships and predicaments that the author had to suffer many times in his life and makes the readers connect with the author on completely another level.
This book would be best for anyone suffering from cancer or any other terminal illness, a survivor of one, or the family member of anyone suffering from a terminal illness or anyone really who wants to read about how it feels to be stuck in such a situation and yet not to lose hope and in fact come out of it stronger. Really, everyone should give this book a read as there are so many takeaways for each reader in this book.
From the Author
Scarily, one in two of the population will be given a cancer diagnosis at some point in their lives and it remains the greatest fear in society. So, at the risk of sounding contrite (that is definitely not my intention) I wanted to give something back to society - to deliver a meaningful book that would help cancer patients and their loved ones.
I decided that if this piece of work was to achieve its objectives, then it had to be written from three perspectives in order that it would be different from any other survivorship chronicle. Firstly, my experience as an immature adolescent facing the turmoil of both the physical and psychological battle with cancer. This was then followed by the unimaginable trauma of having to confront and accept a cancer diagnosis of my four-year-old daughter and watch helplessly as she underwent chemotherapy, followed by the emotional journey of her terminal diagnosis. Third, I wanted this to provide an educational angle for healthcare professionals working in the challenging field of cancer services. Sadly, at the risk of sounding critical, there are nurses (and some in senior positions) who do not understand the psychological impact of a cancer diagnosis - I have witnessed this with my own eyes during my working career in cancer nursing.
I never intended to 'just write my story;' it had to have meaning and provide inspiration to not just the cancer patients themselves, but also their loved ones who are often left out of the cancer equation. Like me, they will need inspiration.
Moreover, I felt this would be a cathartic experience and would eliminate once and for all the demons that lurked in the canyons of my mind. Sadly, it failed to do that.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
Everything, it had to be warts and all if it was going to have an impact. It was, however, important to include some humour along the way. Sadly, you cannot sugar-coat a cancer diagnosis, and although the treatments we deliver today are very different from the treatments I received in the seventies - today, we use less traditional chemotherapy and use more immunotherapies, immunomodulatory drugs, monoclonal antibodies, and a few vaccines, making them less aggressive by way of side effects. Nonetheless, cancer instills fear and like I did, everyone needs inspiration.
I appreciated the candid nature with which you told your story. What was the hardest thing for you to write about?
As you would expect, recalling and writing about my daughter's diagnosis, treatment, and then being told that she would not survive, brought about some chilling memories. I requested access to my medical records, and I was fortunate enough to be given that access. I needed that information to ensure I got the correct chronological order of the treatments, but paradoxically I wanted to confirm the actual terminal nature of my disease. So reading that did hit me very hard, even though I knew my own story - seeing it written in a legally binding document confirmed to me how fortunate I am. But, to be honest, even today, my cup is often half empty. I am burdened with several health-related issues (all as a consequence of the salubrious chemotherapy and radiotherapy I received almost fifty years ago), including another cancer battle, and I cannot help but wonder where my health will take me, luckily, my wife is constantly topping up my cup to make me realise how fortunate I am. 'If you are fortunate enough to survive a cancer diagnosis, that legacy lives with you forever.'
What is one thing you hope readers take away from your story?
Undoubtedly inspiration - Me and My Shadow - memoirs of a cancer survivor is not a prescriptive guide in respect of how to deal with a cancer diagnosis - no such prescription exists. However, I would say to readers, take from my book whatever you can, hopefully, hope and inspiration, but feel free to criticise where you feel is appropriate because the cancer experience is an individual one and we all cope in different ways.
Finally, I would like to share a few words from the final chapter of my book. 'Life is not a rehearsal - it is for living, a once-only opportunity to enjoy. Our future is uncertain; no one knows what lies ahead, what fate has planned. Never look back on your life unless you are prepared to smile and be reflective, never look forward unless you can dream-we all need dreams and we all need hope.'
From the Back Cover
At eighteen years of age, John Walker Pattison was thrust onto a roller coaster ride of emotional turbulence - his innocence cruelly stripped from him; his fate woven into the tapestry of life.
After years of failed chemotherapy and radiotherapy treatments that ravaged his physical frame and almost destroyed his psychological stability - eventually, his parents were told that he would not survive. Yet, today, he is one of the longest cancer survivors in the UK.
Eight years after his unexpected recovery, the news that all parents fear, his four-year-old daughter is diagnosed with terminal leukaemia. Yet like her father, she too would defy the odds, going on to become an international swimmer.
Pattison turned his life full circle and became a cancer nurse specialist at the same hospital that made his diagnosis decades earlier. He prescribes chemotherapy and cares for individuals with the same cancers experienced by both him and his daughter.
Throughout his journey, Pattison's inspirations were the space rock legends, Hawkwind. He would get to play on stage with his heroes at the Donnington Festival in 2007.
More significantly, he found solace throughout his cancer journey in the history and spirituality of the Lakota Sioux Nation. In 2018, he would spend time on Pine Ridge Indian Reservation with the indigenous people of South Dakota - the same people who, unknowingly, supported him through life's greatest challenge: cancer.
About the Author
Today, Pattison enjoys being the practical joker, especially with his grandchildren. He openly admits to spending his school days clowning around, and neglected his intellectual chemistry, subsequently leaving school with a handful of worthless qualifications.
In 1973, he started work in a local shipyard until the spectre of cancer gripped his future in a deathly stranglehold. What happened next is his unique story, his Memoirs of a Cancer Survivor.
Product details
- ASIN : B0BKYJYPY3
- Publication date : October 29, 2022
- Language : English
- File size : 2.4 MB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Not Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 233 pages
- Best Sellers Rank: #2,372,077 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #30,439 in Memoirs (Kindle Store)
- #58,761 in Memoirs (Books)
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About the author

Three-time award-winning author, John Walker Pattison calls himself a dreamer. Born on Monday, 4th February 1957 to parents John and Ruby in the wonderful seaside town of South Shields – he admits that he spent his school days clowning around, neglecting his intellectual chemistry, leaving school with a handful of worthless qualifications.
His childhood was uneventful, although one of his early recollections is from September 1969 when he made his first entry through the turnstiles at St. James Park to see his beloved Newcastle United play football. In 1973, he started to work in a local shipyard until the spectre of cancer gripped his life in a deathly stranglehold and sculptured his future. It was then that his parents were told that he would not survive. Today, he is humbled to be one of the longest survivors of cancer in the UK.
Eight years after his unexpected recovery, he would be devastated by the news that his four-year-old daughter, Donna, had terminal leukaemia. But, like her father, she too would defy the odds, going on to become an international swimmer for Team GB.
Pattison left the Shipyards in 1985 and returned to college where more mature, he excelled and gained the requisite qualifications that would take him into nursing where he enjoyed a meteoric rise to the top of the nursing ladder. During his nursing career, he wrote dozens of articles for national and international nursing and medical press and presented lectures the length and breadth of the country on many aspects of haematology and cancer management. He is honoured to have won numerous awards both locally and nationally for his work in haematology and oncology. However, Pattison knows that being one of the longest cancer survivors is, without doubt, his greatest achievement.
He retired from his post as a senior clinical nurse specialist and head of service in haematology at his local hospital, partially due to chronic illnesses as a consequence of the salubrious chemotherapy and radiotherapy he received almost fifty years ago. There is little doubt that the crucial hinge in John’s life is his beautiful wife, June. “…Nothing is more important than family…” says John.
In 2022, Pattison published his memoirs, ‘Me, and My Shadow – memoirs of a cancer survivor’ to great acclaim. The aim was to deliver hope and particularly inspiration to anyone touched by a cancer diagnosis.
John Walker Pattison has always been an elasticated Grandpa, telling his grandchildren exaggerated tales of adventure. But when, in 2019, cancer stuck him once again, it was these adventures that would allow him to become an author of children’s fiction – inspired by Daniel, his youngest grandson and best friend.
The music of Hawkwind presented him with his first inspiration during his dark days of the seventies – and in 2007 he would not only join the band as part of the backstage crew, he would play on stage with the band at Donnington Festival.
However, a greater inspiration and influence in his life was the history and spirituality of the Lakota Sioux Nation. In 2018, he spent time on Pine Ridge Indian Reservation with the indigenous people of South Dakota, the people who, unknowingly, supported him through life's greatest challenge — cancer.
Pattison enjoys the solitude and escapism of fly-fishing, but, there is nothing greater than travelling to secluded and undiscovered areas of America with his soul mate, June.
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- Reviewed in the United States on December 5, 2023Cancer affects those it encounters more than just physically. There are emotional impacts, psychological impacts, and lifelong influences resulting from the disease.
Author John Walker Pattison, born in 1957, admits to having a rather uneventful childhood. While fun, happy, and full of life, nothing so newsworthy about his childhood would prompt a memoir. Until 1975, at the age of eighteen when he begins experiencing bouts of fatigue. So notable in fact that after climbing down into the cofferdams of a boat he is meant to be welding, he is found sleeping after missing lunch. Time and time again his family doctor writes it off as something less life threatening, until he is admitted to the hospital with suspected appendicitis. Tests, x-ray, pokes, and a series of investigations follows. Resulting in our author being given no type of explanation, at least as far as he’s aware. Learning later that his parents, in what they thought was an attempt to protect him, hid the truth of his cancer diagnosis. What follows is the toll this diagnosis took on him, his unrelenting love for Hawkwind and the unexpected support the Lakota Sioux Nation provided to him during his stage IV Hodgkin Lymphoma battle.
As a reader this memoir had a unique contribution to the field of cancer survivors. Surviving stage IV lymphoma through the various treatments and long-term effects is an impressive and statistically unlikely event given his response to the treatment and options. However, it’s the forty-seven-year survival, career pivot working thirty-two years as a nurse in cancer services, and his daughter also battling cancer at a young age that truly set this read apart from the rest. The brutal honesty about his thoughts, psychological well-being, and treatment effects, open readers’ eyes to the gut-wrenching diagnosis of cancer and the guilt and responsibility that are placed on patient’s shoulders. But the ongoing life he lives, dedication to the field of nursing in the same hospitals that treated him, and the comfort he found in Hawkwind and the Lakota Sioux Nation all these years later makes this a memorable read even after the last page is turned.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 10, 2022Mesmerizing story. I could not put this book down. What a remarkable life and journey this author has had and we get to go along. Definitely recommended for anyone touched by cancer in one way or another. 5 stars!!!
- Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2022In his memoirs the author takes the reader on his personal journey of how cancer changed his life. As a survivor of cancer himself being told he would not make it; however he would go onto to be one of the longest surviving patients in his country.
I found his background and youth that he describes excellent. I felt I got to know him somewhat with his background which involved his love for music. Something I could relate to being an avid fan myself.
After feeling as I knew him a little better I was then blown away by his battle with cancer. He was broken down by all of his treatments something I couldn't even imagine. Discussing the drugs he had to take and the transformation that his body took.
Slowly his illness was taking toll after toll on him. Lymphoma would eventually become his diagnosis after many test and his already declining health. I was very impressed with his telling his family dynamics when he was initially dealing with his cancer.
The author goes into very good details of his treatment of chemotherapy and how he handled the best he could. He discusses his emotions caused by his treatments and cancer, a very real situation that I don't think anyone could understand unless they had been through it.
I love the information given about his time later on of him studying the Lakota Sioux spiritual ways. After all they helped support his recovery. He was told he wouldn't survive but he did. Eight years later he would learn his daughter would be diagnosed with terminal cancer as well but she too would overcome her illness.
Top reviews from other countries
- bwsdadReviewed in the United Kingdom on March 9, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars An interesting and inspiring story
I was drawn to this book because the author is a big fan of my favourite band and was born and raised in the town where my own family come from but what I took away from it is an inspiring story of a life lived well despite huge obstacles. John was diagnosed with cancer as a teenager and he describes with brutal honesty the betrayals and incompetance that hampered the diagnosis and almost led to him making a tragically terrible decision.
When life finally started to get back on track John was dealt another very cruel blow, but his tenacity, and quite a bit of good fortune, helped him turn things round and enabled him to put back into society far more than he ever took out.
In the final chapter John says that he has a great life but is not a great man. But his story is a reminder that we can all make out lives sublime.
A recommended read for anyone who has ever been touched by cancer - and that is surely all of us.
- brett hallReviewed in Canada on November 16, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Book - Me and My Shadow (Hardcover)
I looked it up because it was recommended on a Hawkwind forum and noticed trusted Brian Tawn's review.
- 82% off! what a deal for a hardcover!
Combined it with Hawkwind: Sonic Assassins <paperback> and a map of the UK (for next August's 1st-time journey over to the U.K. to see Hawkwind at a Festival)
- I didn't have to pay shipping via Amazon for the whole bundle
* And... shipment only took 2 days to arrive!
Don't know when I'll read Me and My Shadow by: John Walker Pattison, but it appears to be a well made hardcover book...
- Brian TawnReviewed in the United Kingdom on May 15, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars A MEMOIR OF TRIUMPH OVER ADVERSITY
The author's story of his response to the cancers which have been a curse and, oddly, a strange kind of blessing in his life.
It would have been so easy to give up when, as a young man, he was diagnosed with a cancer which would return time after time, but he didn't.
Inspired by his love for the music of Hawkwind and his admiration for the Lakota Sioux native Americans, he endured all the treatment he had to accept, determined to see the band at every opportunity and to visit the Lakota people in the USA. In fact, he went so far as to join Hawkwind onstage at Donnington Park and later made trips to America, meeting the Sioux and visiting historical sites.
More than that, he turned to nursing and lived a working life dedicated towards the treatment and care of cancer patients, becoming a prominent figure in the field.
This is his tale and it is absorbing. His determination and positive thinking are an example to us all.
Well worth a read.
- MR GReviewed in the United Kingdom on January 13, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars A wonderful life affirming story.
I have had the pleasure of knowing John since he began his nurse training. He brought a unique set of life experiences and has used what he has learned from them admirably. It takes great judgment to know when to tell a patient of your own experiences and John has developed that skill throughout his career.
John’s memoirs are beautifully written, not only setting out a clear picture of John’s life, but also allowing the reader to consider what may be helpful when dealing with life’s every day ups and downs and the challenges of dealing with having cancer, almost dying and then becoming a cancer survivor. There is much less written about surviving cancer and John excels in his description of this complex process.
You will get to know John from a young age until the present day. You will become enthralled by his writing and story telling.
This is a superb book for those experiencing cancer and also for students of health care and experienced professionals.
Thank you for writing this John. Thank you for all you have skilfully and compassionately given to others throughout your life
- L frostReviewed in the United Kingdom on August 19, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Very good
After being diagnosed with cancer and going through all the various treatments and how I feel now.This book was a great read,it explains a lot and is an interesting and aspiring story ,which I could relate to .would recommend it,enjoyed it read in two days as found it hard to put down .