I write a lot of sex scenes from the perspective of many different characters. While I do identify as female I can find it more difficult to write about other females' experiences during those scenes than I do when writing from a male perspective. It's odd, but true!
I'm a homeschooling mom of 2, and we have 3 dogs, 4 cats, 3 degu's, 2 gerbils, and roughly 14 pet snails. Aside from my plants and housewife duties I hardly have any time to write at all until it's about 1-3am. I have to maximize my time in those sparse moments to get as much done as possible. During the day I can sometimes work through some editing or marketing on the side.