Yeah. I thought that I'd be a bestselling author and get paid as a famous writer. After working very hard to pitch my novels, and even winning contests here and there, all the agents' rejections over the years (100s) got tiring, so I focused on teaching and am currently working toward my Ph.D. in linguistics while continuing to become a bestselling author.
Only in academic writing. When it comes to creative and nonfiction writing, I've looked at writing as a way to express myself and grow. So, it's never become a writer's block issue. It's important to take the time to experience life and investigate a character's life before and while writing, and between drafts. Also, with a proper outline and organized writer life, writer's block is very much avoidable.
Not only that, but also stars. My stomach sank when someone gave my anthology 4 stars instead of 5. You can't please everyone. Now that it's happened, I'm prepared for the worse. It hurt, though, because a team of 42 people, and thousands of authors worked on that anthology since 2018, and it was finally published November 2024. After such hard work, I expected more reviews and higher stars from every reader. People actually died while making the book, including two of the editors and a few of the authors. Honoring them and the writers is important to me. That said, if the work were only my own, I wouldn't mind 4 stars instead of 5 or bad reviews, but would read them for entertainment and to grow.
Always makes me smile. The first time was the best because the person referred to me as, "that writer guy." He didn't know my name, but remembered a story I'd read at an open mic night. It was a euphoric experience. From then on, I knew that my writing would take me places.